FTO 18+ [NSFW] Chat Rules

Borrowed from the CFCI website

  1. We don't allow any illegal content (pictures, video, ... audio?) in any of our chats. What constitutes *legal* is up to administrative discretion. Most of our administrators are based in the United States
  2. No profile pictures with fire arms present will be allowed in this chat. This creates an unsafe environment for some of our members, and we have decided to err on the side of caution. Fontana Village also does not allow firearms to be present.
  3. Hyperlinks
    • Hyperlinks to other chats and channels must be pre-approved by an admin (unless the chat referenced is already linked in the chat's description or a pinned message).
    • Hyperlinks to external websites (e.g. YouTube, Furaffinity, Twitter, ...) are allowed provided that they do not link to content that violates any of the chat rules.
    • FTO is independent of any NC furry organization. Our members appreciate this independence and so we have made the choice to not allow advertisements for other cons, organizations or groups.
    • Any personal adverts for at or services must be cleared with an admin BEFORE they can be posted in the chat. Repeat violations will result in suspension.
  4. You must be 18 (in human years, ... for real) to join our NSFW chats. If you lie to us, your friends will rat you out. We know a lot more people than you think and we cross-reference information with other chat administration efforts to detect inconsistencies. If we suspect you are not 18 you will be asked to provide photographic evidence, and if you decline or do not respond in a timely fashion we have no choice but to remove you.
  5. This goes without saying, but as with any other Telegram chat, you can be removed or restricted for any reason. Administrators will use discretion in making decisions and the CFCI staff as a whole will generally stand behind those decisions even if another administrator disagrees. Consider this equivalent to a "don't be a dick" rule or other general requirement to uphold common courtesy.
  6. Do not contact an admin because you didn't get the answer you like from the first one you contacted. All reports/complaints/incidents are shared with all admins and any attempt to circumvent or manipulate our process or the initial admin's decision by contacting multiple admins for the same issue will not be looked fondly upon.
  7. Our primary goals are the safety of the users in our chats, and ensuring the chats are free from spam, irrelevant shock content, unrelated advertisements, and personal disputes. We are not here to micromanage people's interpersonal relationships or feelings, especially in chats labelled as 18+ in which everyone is required to actually be an adult. We typically do not get involved unless we deem that a member poses a direct safety risk to the members of our chats (either physically or through some other means such as doxing, death threats, etc.).
    • If you feel your complaint falls into this category please preface it with as much objective evidence as possible, including all possible context (entire conversations, not just snippets) that show the problem behavior. Please forward all Telegram messages; we rarely will review screenshots (esp. screenshots taken by others, screenshots of screenshots, or anything that does not definitively identify the user in question). We typically decline to review personal messages resulting from or related to personal relationships.
  8. We have a zero tolerance policy for cancel culture and/or bans being used as weapons in personal disputes; if we believe you are making a report to us for the sole purpose of attacking, silencing, or harassing the individual you are reporting, and your report to us has no other merit (i.e. the individual didn't actually break any rules), we will notify the individual(s) of your report for the sake of transparency and to maintain impartiality.
  9. The rule against cancel culture applies to kink shaming or exclusionary non-constructive criticism of legal kinks or activities.
  10. No backseat moderation. If you need an admin, type @mods or @admins and press enter. If you want to enforce your own moral, social, or ethical guidelines feel free to create your own chat.
  11. You should read the chat description and any pinned topics before participating. Certain chats may have specific requirements.
  12. Join the voice chat at your own risk. Lifeguard not always on duty. Treat this like a city street. Do not tag users in the text chat repeatedly because you've joined the voice chat without a microphone and/or have a sleeping spouse. All rules apply to voice chat equally. Mods may mute or lower your volume if your mic is disruptive to the flow of conversation.
  13. Ignorance of the rules is no excuse

We do not air our dirty laundry; we typically do not notify the chat when/why someone was banned, and more often than not we choose to mute rule breakers rather than banning them (for a multitude of technical and behavioral reasons). Just because you still see someone in the chat does not mean they have not been dealt with!